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Memorial to fallen soldiers

Memorial to Collateral Damages of War

Memorial Day commemorates fallen soldiers but it should also recognize the loss of innocent civilians whose deaths are considered ‘collateral damage’ of war. Sadly, the never-ending war against terrorism seems to yield many such killings. Recently the deaths of 22 young people at a Manchester, England concert has captured the world’s sympathy and attention as did the stabbing of 2 brave men on an Oregon train who tried to stand up to hateful, anti-Muslim bullying. We must also ask why do we not mourn the hundreds of civilians killed in bombings across the Middle East on an almost daily basis?

Our Soundings of the Planet motto is Peace Through Music and we continue to work toward peace and understanding in our world. We realize that fighting violence with violence is an ever-escalating situation that will not yield resolution. What if we respected all lives, especially the lives of our so-called enemies and their families? What if we changed our course and redirected our energies toward healing misunderstandings and finding common ground even when there appears to be none?

Every Day is Memorial Day at Arlington National Cemetery honoring fallen soldiers.

These are thoughts we are pondering this Memorial Day weekend. We realize there are no easy answers to these questions. In fact, death from war has existed since the beginning of recorded history. Yet, today in this era of instant worldwide communication, we have a great opportunity to stop fanning the flames of conflict and divisiveness and focus our attention toward understanding and mutual respect. We can’t help but think that putting our energies toward acceptance of people of different races, cultures and religions might at least begin to plant seeds of possibility for a more peaceful world. This can happen right in our own communities, where we live, where we work. When we address the source of conflict, we stimulate a cascade of events that can ultimately have a national and global effect.

A few years ago, we became aware of the cost of war trauma to our own soldiers. We developed some tools to help returning soldiers deal with their PTSD. If you or anyone you know suffers from such trauma, you can download our RELAXATION BASIC TRAINING GUIDE. We hope it helps in a small way people dealing with the negative results of war and trauma. Relaxation Basic Training Manual:
http://soundings.com/relaxation-basic-training-manual/

We welcome your thoughts and ideas on this subject. When you comment on our blog, we’ll send you a free mp3 of our music. Also, we hope you will take advantage of our Memorial Day Special. Enter the code: MEMORIAL17 at checkout to receive your discount.

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Contrasts, Opposites, A Rainbow of Differences

Dean Evenson rainbowAh life, so full of opposites and apparent contradictions. It’s been quite a week with some good news that love prevails and other extremes of tragedy mixed with displays of hope. How can we reconcile the differences in our world?  We know that contrasts exist in life, but usually that does not mean that one is good and the other bad. Black-White, Us-Them, Male-Female, Push-Pull, Up-Down, Hot-Cold. These sorts of opposites occur and give energy to our existence.  They enhance the rich, biodiversity of the multi-colored rainbow of our human ecosystem. They serve a purpose, create tension and release, and describe a situation. Other opposites such as Love and Hate do present values that we best pay attention to before they get out of hand. It is clear to me that Love as a practice is much more desirable and helpful to the life process than its opposite. My sweet husband, Dean Evenson, always says ‘Love is practical’ and of course love typically yields more satisfactory results than animosity.  However, since Hate is present in our world, we get to deal with it as well.

Why would a person not want to love? What obstacles stand in the way of one’s being able to love?  Fear is certainly one thing that can block the progress of love. Another antithesis to love is low self-esteem.  Healthy self-esteem is about self-love without which it is difficult to carry on in the world. However when one feels insecure or unsafe, there is often a defensive reaction that arises which looks for the ‘other’ to blame for one’s condition and that other is often someone who is different from us.

Trouble can arise when the object of blame is a group of people or entire race or religion.  Someone with this mindset may ‘act out’ their frustration in antisocial ways especially if they are fed more negativity by their peers that fuels their emotions. The problems can magnify even more if that mentally unstable person should have access to a gun or a ‘weapon of mass destruction.’  Now you might think that such a weapon would be something like a bomb with highly destructive powers, but as we saw during the tragic events of September 11, a simple box cutter can become a weapon of mass destruction when used in the wrong hands.

Pastor and former police officer, Rt. Rev. J. Jon Bruno, tries to address the core causes of the issue in his post: Five Steps to Stop Gun Violence in America. His first suggestion is to “Reach out to young people – especially those who express feelings of being alienated, isolated, or disenfranchised – and those who need mentoring, encouragement, and opportunities to break out of cycles of despair, hate, rage and frustration. Provide that guidance – a “hand up” for success.”

We live in a society that feeds on divisiveness. The flame of conflict is fanned in news media and corporate competition.  But there is an antidote to this discordant, dysfunctional society and it is love and compassion.  And yes, even forgiveness as those family members of the Charleston church massacre victims offered to the young man who had shot their loved ones. We need to look around in our families and communities and notice those who feel disenfranchised and alienated, notice them and connect with love and compassion.

We hope that guns, knives or boxcutters do not fall into the hands of mentally unstable people. It is the anti-social person with the weapon that pulls the trigger. With the recent killings in the Charleston church, my daughter posted on Facebook – “Let’s focus on becoming better people and being a better example for peace & love. And my momma raised me to think “what would Jesus do” way before it was a catch phrase. Be kind. Be an example of kindness. Be compassionate.”

*If the news gets you down and you need some support to lift your spirit – go to our Free Downloads page and grab an mp3 of Soundings of the Planet’s relaxation music. Our gift to bring more peace into the world!